Its valentine’s time and love is in the air. Well to be honest I had to give a test today and have to give one tomorrow. Most of the other people in my college had similar duties to attend to. So I think it was much of physics and math that was in the air rather than love. But considering the tiny little amounts of love I still noticed around myself, it set me thinking about it.
Love is something I have never understood and probably never will. I feel that it is an extremely clichéd emotion. Love is of many kinds they say. And every love is different from other. I personally think all love is essentially the same. Its care and concern and selfless contribution to the other’s happiness .But you know I am just an 18 year old guy and might definitely be wrong.
The thing that amuses me most is when some girl responds to a proposal in this way
“I always thought of you as a friend, not as a boyfriend”. And the other common response is “I don’t know you enough”. The only way to understand a person is by hanging out with that person and being friends with him/her. So if you want to know about a person you need to be friends with him/her but if you don’t want to date your friend, well I don’t even know how it’s possible. It is a funny contrast of thoughts. I don’t know is it “girls” or “love” that I don’t understand.
The other question I keep wondering is: HOW DO YOU KNOW IT’S LOVE?
I’d appreciate your comments on this and for now I need to get back to my studies………….
-A REJECT
